Wednesday, June 3, 2020, Day 80, Week 12, Month 3 of Self Isolation.

The New Way of Life

It’s raining! It’s a bit of a shock after such a long spell of great weather. I wen out for two walks, as I couldn’t go on a bike ride until my bike comes back from it’s service. To be honest, I’m a fair weather cyclist. I don’t enjoy it when its wet. It’s not so much about getting wet, but more about the spray from cars and the road being slippery.

I got up early for a Zoom meeting with our local business network. A big shop arrived about 11 and it took me an hour to clean it and put it all away. After that I cracked on with some work on my biography for a few hours. In the afternoon I watched an Irish “zombie” movie, called The Cured, and did some of my cross-stitch. M hates horror movies so I have to watch them on my own – I was getting a bit of withdrawal from my need to be scared and my fascination with all things apocalyptic.

We’re having a Chinese today. I’m going to brave the real world and go and collect it. It’s our second takeaway in isolation.

Not a lot else to talk about today!

The News

Schools in Wales are going to open on the 29th of June for 4 weeks prior to the summer break.

There is a lot of criticisim of the governments failure to provide Covid test results within 24 hours, which is critical for the success of Test, Track and Trace.

A medical contact revealed to us that the NHS is preparing for a second wave as early as July. I really hope this doesn’t happen.

In the daily briefing the medics were stressing that we are still in the tail end of the outbreak and numbers are not going as slowly as they would like.

Crowds of people were demonstrating in London about #blacklivesmatter.

The quarantine conditions for people returning to the UK from abroad were officially announced and it was confirmed that non-compliance would be met with a £1000 fine.

More job losses are being announced in big companies including Rolls Royce. Frankie and Benny’s are to close 120 restaurants.

The man behind the Swedish approach has admitted that too many people have died. Their death rates have been higher than neighbouring countries and Swedish nationals are being banned from travelling to other countries.

On the other hand, The Shetland Isles, who locked down early when they were badly affected, have halted the virus. They have had no new cases for six weeks.

It feels as though the government is well and truly floundering now. Kier Starmer has changed his tone and become far more confrontational now when challenging Boris in PM Questions.

The Numbers

359 new deaths. Total 39,728.

1871 new cases – an increase from yesterday. Apparently, the R number remains very close to 1.

 

 

Tuesday, June 2, 2020, Day 79, Week 12, Month 3 of Self Isolation.

The New Way of Life

Another wonderful sunny day. Apparently the last one for a while.

I had a couple of walks and a bike ride to make the most of it.

I spent most of the day working on my biography project. It’s really coming together now ad I’m enjoying writing it.

I saw a story on a news page about Italian medics saying that they think the virus is losing strength. Only anecdotal evidence at the moment, but, if it turned out to be true it could mean this thing would run its course and we’d have no second wave this winter.

We have a “mobile” bike man coming tonight to take the bike’s away for servicing. My gears are sticking and M has an old racer he wants to resurrect.

M had a telephone appointment with his Respiratory Consultant this afternoon. She’s really pleased with his progress and was fairly encouraging about our plans to got o Barbados as soon as we can. She’s going to give him another month or two of azithromycin, before he needs to take a break for a couple of months.

The News

Violent protests continue to rage across America. Trump has threatened to send in the army.

The government review into why more people from Black and Ethnic Minority groups are dying from Covid has concluded that more people from Black and Ethnic Minority groups are dying from Covid. Huh?

Today on social media people expressed their solidarity with the black lives matter movement and marked “Blackout Tuesday” by posting black screens on their status.

The Numbers

324 new deaths taking the total to 39,369.

1613 new cases – an increase from yesterday

It doesn’t feel as if things are declining as quickly as it seemed. If anything, it’s more of a flattening out.

An intersting “anomoly” with the numbers yesterday. I reported 111 new deaths as the official government number, but failed to notice the difference between yesterday and the day before was actually 556 deaths. When I checked the Worldometer website later they had corrected it to 556, but today it’s gone back to 111, despite the totals not adding up correctly. Weird. Are they possibly trying to cover something up? A few people in the media picked up on this. They are beginning to seem desperate to get the economy back up and running irrespective of whether it’s safe to do so or not. I do understand that to an extent, but the economy doesn’t matter if you’re dead!

 

Monday, June 1, 2020, Day 78, Week 12, Month 3 of Self Isolation.

The New Way of Life

As we enter our 12th week of isolation, and the month of June, I’m going to change the format of these posts. As there is less and less new news to report, and the numbers are beginning to significantly decline, I want to focus on the future and how we are all beginning to get back to normal. I’m going to talk about the News and the Numbers at the end, instead of at the beginning.

I’ve also changed the cover photo, to a picture of our favourite beach in Barbados, as that is our primary goal. We are agreed that, as soon as it is safe to do so, we will try and get out there. Realistically, that will be September at the earliest. Lots of things have to fall into place first.

The main one is the end of quarantine in Barbados. We definitely don’t want to be confined in the quarantine centre out there. I’ve done a bit of research and it doesn’t sound very safe. If reports from people who have been there are true, it is dirty and cramped. They may introduce other options, such as being quarantined in a hotel with a balcony, or at a private residence. These would be tolerable.

However, even if the island opens up to tourists again, they may not accept visitors from the UK. We are seen as one of the countries with the biggest Covid problems, and many other countries who are opening their doors again are banning tourists from the UK.

When they do decide open, we need to get a flight. At the moment flights are not running from the UK to Barbados, as far as we can see. Once they do re-start and the island accepts visitors, other people may start to book again and we may lose the opportunity with the house. At the moment all their bookings for 2020 have been cancelled and this is why they are willing to let us have the house in high season at our low season special deal. They only need a few bookings at high season prices to make the arrangement not worth it for them.

So, first we need Barbados to open to visitors from the UK, and second we need to book some flights and let the owners know. They have said that, as soon as we do that, they will confirm our booking. In the meantime, we need to pray that a second wave doesn’t hit and take us all back to the start again!

The schools have re-opened today. By all accounts it is very patchy with some schools remaining closed and some parents deciding they don’t want to send their kids back yet.

M and I have so far avoided any trips out to “beauty spots” for walks or bike rides. Everywhere has been so busy it just doesn’t seem safe. Even the roads around our little local lakes and woods are rammed with cars parked on either side. I can’t imagine what other more popular places are like. Maybe now that some children are back at school and some people are back at work it might quieten down.

We fancy a drive up to the Long Mynd, while the weather is so good, but we’ll wait for a bit. Trouble is, the weather is set to change on Wednesday and we have a few things on tomorrow, so we might miss our chance.

The News

The news is all about some children going back to school.

The violent unrest in America rages on.

The first horse race since the 17th of March has taken place.

Car showrooms and outdoor markets have re-opened.

This May has been the sunniest on record. Climate change scientists and meteorologists are staggered by how much sunshine we have had and not because it’s a good thing! On a postive note, it has made lockdown easier to deal with.

The Numbers

1,570 new cases.

111 deaths, total 39,045.

Sunday, May 31, 2020, Day 77, Week 11, Month 3 of Self Isolation.

The Numbers

113 deaths, total 38,489.

1,936 new cases.

We still have way more new cases than other countries that are easing lockdown.

The Association of Directors of Public Health have written to the government asking them to postpone the easing of lockdown, saying it’s to soon.

People are going crazy. Parties, gatherings, BBQs. I really hope numbers don’t start to rise again. When you think back to the beginning, when we just had a few cases and how quickly things escalated out of control, it’s very worrying. I suppose this time the idea is that we can control it with Test, Track and Trace. I sincerely hope so!

The News

Violence continues in America. There have been protests and demonstrations in cities in the UK now too. Apart from people wearing masks, not much evidence of social distancing here or in America. I wonder if we will see a spike in new cases associated with this crisis.

The government announced the tentative first steps of easing lockdown for the “shielded.”

Th UK has seen a wave of littering and fires as people picnic all over the countries beauty spots. In Dorset a load of people jumped off the Durdle Door into the sea and seriously injured themselves. All the people on the beach had to ignore social distancing and crowd together as the beach was cleared to make way for the Air Ambulance.

We are more resolved than ever to watch and wait before taking any chances ourselves.

The New Way of Life

We had a lovely day in the glorious Sunday sunshine. Walked, went on a bike ride, sunbathed Facetimed friends and family and read and relaxed.

I cooked some salmon and made a couple of nice salads to go with it; grilled onion with rocket and shaved parmesan, tomato and mozzarella with balsamic dressing and a homemade garlic tartar sauce.

In the evening we watched Alien Covenant. A few decent films are appearing for rental on the streaming services.  I suppose its all they can do as no one is going to the cinema any time soon.

 

Saturday, May 30, 2020, Day 76, Week 11, Month 3 of Self Isolation.

The Numbers

215 new deaths taking the total to 38,378.

1,604 new cases.

The News

Finally, 11 weeks after M was advised to stay indoors, it has been announced that the “shielded” can begin to venture outdoors. People living with families can go out once a day with a member of their household. People living alone can meet up with one other person outside as long as they stay 2 metres apart.

As this is what we have been doing already, it won’t make any real difference to us but still a sign that things are slowly moving on.

All the scientists are still concerned though.

People are visibly beginning to relax, getting together already in larger groups in parks and gardens. Even people I know who have been extremely cautious and followed the rules religiously, are meeting up with friends and family outside. It’s laughable that the new guidance doesn’t even come into force until Monday. I really hope we won’t all live to regret this.

Terrible violence, looting and rioting in America rages on. Cars and buildings have been set alight, the police have used tear gas and rubber bullets to try and disperse the crowds. Los Angeles has declared a state of emergency and called in the National Guard. A curfew between 8pm and 5.30 am is in place across the city.

The New Way of Life

Another quiet day. I went for a walk but missed my bike ride today after our bucket of gin the day before! That said, I felt pretty good considering. I spent the day cooking and doing a little bit of cleaning and tidying.

I cooked our weekly curry tonight instead of Friday. This time I made Rick Stein’s Chicken Tikka Masala, Rice, Dal and Onion Pakora.

We watched our, now usual, Saturday shit TV but M’s new guilty pleasure, In for a Penny, wasn’t on! So we just had Ninja Warrior (and it was the last episode of that!) and Britain’s Got Talent. So, looks like we’ll have to change our routine next Saturday. Ha! Ha! Probably a good thing!

We watched Bad Boys For Life after dinner. The third in the truly awful trilogy that M loves so much. Thank god the kit for my new cross stitch has all arrived. I can tolerate these type of movies if I have something else to do while I watch them.

Last night, we could hear some people having a get together outside the back of our house. They were in the secure cark park for the apartment block next door. When we went to bed, I saw them from the window. A group of between 8-10 people sitting on garden chairs in a circle, enjoying a drink and each others company on a beautiful warm evening. They were not sitting 2 metres, or even 1 metre, apart, there were more than 6 people from more that 2 households and its not even the 1st of June, when the new advice comes into effect. I’m not judging or criticising. It’s just an example of how people are moving ahead and pushing the limits of the guidance all the time. As far as we know, they are all reasonable people who have been following the rules until now. If this is how they are interpreting the situation, what the hell are all the unreasonable people doing right now?

 

 

 

 

 

Friday, May 29, 2020, Day 75, Week 11, Month 3 of Self Isolation.

The Numbers

324 deaths taking the total to 38,161.

2,095 new cases. The number of cases does not seem to be going down. Interestingly, compared to other European countries who are also beginning to ease lockdown restrictions, our number of cases is high.  Spain, Italy, France and Germany had 658, 516, 597 and 567 respectively. Maybe, we are moving too quickly. That is what the scientific experts are saying. They fear a second wave and several “experts” have come out and said that the government has begun to ease lockdown for economic reasons and not scientific ones. We will see.

Sweden, who never really went into lockdown also have relatively high figures. They have had similar numbers to other countries but have not “wrecked” their economy in the same way. Maybe they did get it right after all? We have still to see the economic impact of the lockdown and it is predicted to be bad!

The News

The Dominic Cummings saga rumbles on.

The big news is not about Covid for a change. It’s all about an unarmed, 46 year old black man who died as a result of police brutality in Minneapolis. This came on the back of another incident in New York  where a white woman called the police and told them she was being attacked by a black man. This was not true. What actually happened was that the man, who was a bird watcher, and was “birding” in an area designated for the purpose where dogs were required to be on a leash, had altercation with her over the fact that her dog was running free and scaring the birds. The man had video evidence of the whole incident and posted this online. The woman has been sacked from her job for racist behaviour.

A few weeks ago another black man was shot and killed by two white men while he was jogging. They said they though he was a “burglar”, even though it has now emerged that he jogged the same route every day. Again the while event was filmed by another man. All three have been arrested and charged with his murder.

In the Minneapolis incident, a man called George Floyd was arrested on suspicion that he was in possession of counterfeit money. George had lost his job as a bouncer in a restaurant in Houston as result of Covid. He had moved to Minneapolis to try and find work. The police claimed that he resisted arrest but again, video evidence does not support this. What it does show is an officer kneeling on his neck as George pleads for him to stop saying “Please, I can’t breathe. The knee on my neck. I can’t breathe. They gonna kill me.” And they did.

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The four officers involved have been sacked and the one who had his knee on George’s neck has been charged with murder.  The killing has triggered a wave of protests from the #blacklivesmatter movement. Many have resulted in violent clashes with the police all over America.

Totally unacceptable blatant racism. Heartbreaking tragedy.

The New Way of Life

Today was our youngest granddaughter’s 2nd birthday. So sad that we couldn’t celebrate it with her.

We did take her cake over in the morning and had a little driveway visit. She knew she couldn’t come close to us and was very good about it, but you could see the confusion and disappointment in her little face. We played hide and seek with her around the cars on the drive for a while. When we came to leave I asked her to blow me a kiss and, for a moment, she thought I meant a real kiss and her face lit up as she rushed forward. I had to step back and put my hand up to stop her. I know she doesn’t understand why we are all behaving in such a bewildering way! I long to have a huge kiss and cuddle with her. I don’t know when that will be.

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M and I went for walk in a nearby park after that. M was quite nervous. It’s the first time he’s been anywhere except for his bike rides and our little sorties around our village.

It was another sweltering day. This is turning out to be the hottest May on record. So ironic that this has happened in the middle of a pandemic.

After our bike ride we took our beach chairs down to the village green again. This time I dug out an old drinks cooler from the garage and filled it with gin and tonic! A friend joined us and we sat 2 metres apart and whiled away the afternoon together. M went home to refill the cooler and I’m ashamed to say we polished off the best part of a bottle of gin over the next few hours! Oopsie! M really enjoyed it. We both did. It was such a lovely relaxing day.

We headed home for dinner around 7pm, more than a little the worse for wear. A combination of the sun, the gin and the food eventually defeated us and we were in bed not much after 9pm. I didn’t even write my blog. It’s 12 noon on Saturday as I write this post.

Thankfully, because we stopped drinking when we got home, we managed to re-hydrate a bit before we went to bed and slept through our hangovers!

 

Thursday, May 28, 2020, Day 74, Week 11, Month 3 of Self Isolation.

The Numbers

We had 377 new deaths taking the total deaths to 37,837.

I think its worth looking at the numbers of new cases again now. There is a degree of testing going on and, now that we have entered Test Track and Trace, its going to be a relevant number.

Today we had 1,887 new cases. Yesterday there were 2,013.

One of the new cases was a resident in the building where my parents live. It’s a warden controlled residence block or privately owned apartments. Some of the residents have carers coming in every day. A dangerous environment full of very vulnerable people.

The News

It’s beginning to ease now. Bit by bit, step by step.

From Monday the 1st of June, people will be able to meet in socially distanced groups of up to 6 people outdoors, in parks or garden.

On the 8th of June, dentists can re-open.

On the 17th of June, Premier League Football will resume and will be shown on the BBC.

Dominic Cummings is still here – I think the government are hoping the crisis is over. I hope its not!

The New Way of Life

Busy day making a birthday cake for our 2 year old granddaughter. I’ve never made a proper birthday cake iced with fondant icing. I was very nervous. I’ve even been dreaming about it!

I was so tense, I messed up the first cake by forgetting to add the baking powder. I had to go to our little Tesco to get more eggs and I also bought some more white fondant icing there. I realised when I made the bed head and foot boards, that the packs of icing I had bought online were not very big. There was no way the white one was going to cover the cake. So, as I was there, and they had a big pack of white fondant, I bought it and breathed a big sigh of relief.

So, I used the white fondant I bought to cover the cake the other pack of white to make the pillows. I made a bedcover with the blue and added the brown head and foot boards that I made on Tuesday. They both fell apart a bit so I had to do a bit of ad hoc repair and improvisation, but I was happy with the outcome, especially for my first attempt. I’m not sure it’s me though, the baking and cake decorating thing. Far too precise and fiddley.  I’m much more of a throw it all in sort of cook.

I had a walk and a bike ride after the baking.

Later, we went down to the village green again with our little chairs and our books.

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I miss-timed the grocery shopping this time and we have very little left in the fridge. Managed to rustle up a Tartiflette for tonight, and we’ve got a chilli in the freezer for tomorrow, but I’m going to have to get some stuff in our local Tesco before our main shop arrives on Wednesday. It seems that you have to book a couple of delivery slots in advance or the gap between them is too long. I’ve already booked another one for 10 days after the one that comes next week.

 

Wednesday, May 27, 2020, Day 73, Week 11, Month 3 of Self Isolation.

The Numbers

412 new deaths today taking the total to 37,460.

The News

We’re still talking about Dominic Cummings. Social Media is flooded with memes about him. Several people have recorded versions of The Proclaimers song, I would walk 500 miles, and replaced the words with I would drive 260 miles.

40 back bench MPs have called for his resignation and expressed their anger about his hypocritical and arrogant behaviour.

The PM has been in front of the Commons Liaison Committee, basically, getting a grilling about Dominic Cummings and the government handling of the outbreak.

Details are emerging of the next phase of the pandemic in the UK.

Test, Track and Trace is due to start on Thursday.

The idea of local lockdowns where schools and businesses would be closed and people required to stay at home, in a defined local area in the event of a flareup, have been proposed.

The EU have offered the UK a 2 year delay in implementing Brexit because of the pandemic.

Hairdressers are asking if they can open, insisting that they are an essential service. Really?

The first private space flight, Elon Musk’s SpaceX is due to launch today (weather permitting) taking two astronauts to the International Space Station. It is this spacecraft that will eventually take paying members of the public into space. I suppose I’m thinking that that money could be better spent in the current economical situation. We are hurtling towards a global economic crisis the likes of which has never been seen before and people are still spending a fortune blasting people into space. Discuss.

Oh, and while we’re on the subject, we’re still ploughing ahead with HS2 at a cost so large that the numbers become meaningless! Is that really a priority at the moment? It may well be that it has its own momentum now and that we have come to far to go back. It may be that it will create valuable jobs that could boost the economy. I’m no expert. It just seems a bit pointless right now.

The New Way of Life

The weather is fantastic again. We got up early and got our work done before lunch-time. M had a group coaching session with a Business Network that he is a member of. I did some editing of Chapter 5 of Wait for Me and then a Zoom meeting about the next chapter of my biography project.

For the rest of the afternoon, we read, sunbathed and I did a bit of my new cross-stitch project. We went for a bike ride around 4.

Big cake-making day tomorrow!

Tuesday, May 26, 2020, Day 72, Week 11, Month 3 of Self Isolation.

The Number

134 new deaths today, taking the total to 37,048. ONS estimates this to be 45,231.

The News

We’re still talking about bloody Dominic Cummings! Some Conservative MPs have started resigning in protest.

In the meantime, supercar makers McLaren have cut 1,200 jobs. It appears that no one is buying supercars at the moment. The New York Stock Exchange has re-opened and an antiviral drug that might aid recovery from the virus is available on the NHS.

Plans are being made to open non-essential shops from the 15th of June. Holiday destinations are announcing their plans to open up to tourists in the coming months.

The New Way of Life

Our neighbour decided to have a few beers on his balcony last night. He does it from time to time, usually when the weather is good and he’s been drinking all day. He gets loud and sings into the wee small hours. Last night it finished at 2am, which is quite early for him. I suspect he’s not the sort of person who would react well if we spoke to him about it so we just suffer in silence.

I’d lost 2lb this morning so day one of the “diet” went well. I hope it wasn’t a fluke! I’ve tried to be good today again and have had a walk and a bike ride.

I did my Biobank blood test this morning. It involved pricking my finger with a lance and squeezing 0.5 ml of blood into a little tube. No mean feat! It’s actually quite a lot of blood to get from a tiny prick! Anyway, posted it off.

I had my first foray into the world of fondant icing. I was very nervous! I rolled out the brown icing and cut out a headboard and footboard for the bed I’m going to make on Thursday. I’m quite scared about the next stage! The icing was a bit tricky to work with and the packet didn’t seem to go very far! I barely had enough to make both pieces. I ‘ve only got one packet of white to cover the bed (cake) and make the pillows. I’ve also got a packet of blue for the bedspread. I think I’m going to have to be very creative! I’m going to have to set the whole day aside to give myself plenty of time.

I know, they look a bit rough and ready!

Anyway, off to make Pasta Puttanescu for dinner!

 

 

 

 

Monday, May 25, 2020, Day 71, Week 11, Month 3 of Self Isolation.

The Numbers

121 new deaths taking the total to 36,914.

The News

Its all about Dominic Cummings for the third day in a row. Today he gave a press conference where he went through all the details of his illness and his experience.

So sick of hearing about it now. He broke the rules, end of!

A hospital in Somerset has declared a state of emergency and is closed to admissions after an influx of Covid-19 patients.

It’s been a blazing hot Bank Holiday and beaches and parks are rammed with people.

The New Way of Life

As we enter our 11th week in isolation, it’s another Bank Holiday today! Yet another one that has come and gone just like every other day in the Time of Covid.

Last night we went a bit mad! We started watching a new mini-series called Little Fires Everywhere. It was very good. We kept saying “Another one?”, “Oh go on then.” We ended up watching all 8 episodes and going to bed at 2am! I’ll repeat, it was very good!

We tried to make it a different kind of day. We did a little bit of work in the morning (finished a chapter of my biography project) and I had my usual walk. I took some gloves and a bin bag and picked up some litter as I walked. I was sick of looking at endless cans, bottles and fast food cartons, as well as other “paraphernalia”. I’ve no idea what the kids get up to down at our little nature reserve (well I do a bit). Lots of used balloons and little shiny cannisters. Some sort of drug but I don’t really know which one.

In the afternoon we went on a bike ride and then took our chairs and a rug down to the village green and shared a bottle of wine in the sunshine. It was lovely! Relaxing and far more entertaining than sitting in our back garden. Lots of people about to watch and chat to from a distance.

We had a BBQ when we got back then watched Killing Eve and SAS Celebrity Who Dares.

Our neighbours managed to lock themselves out so we had a little chat to them while they waited for a locksmith to arrive.

Lockdown  seems to be slowly coming to an end. Fizzling out. People are relaxing more and shops and bars seem to be preparing to open again. But anyone, who thought that when it was all over we would have a massive party as going to be dissapointed. Rather than it being on one day and off the next, its going to be a slow drizzle of easing lockdown measures over the next few months, maybe even years,  I fear. Some things like hugs and handshakes might never be resumed in the way that they were commonplace before. Some shops and businesses might never re-open. Concerts and sports events might never take place in the way they have before. Our world is likely to be changed forever.

It’s hard to think of new things to write about every day. Life has become very dull. Well, not dull. We’ve settled in to our Covid groove quite nicely now. We’re never bored. We feel strangely content and resigned. It’s just that our little routine of lying in till 9 or 10 every day, taking turns to make coffee which we drink in bed, doing a little bit of work/writing, a bit of reading, a little walk, a little bike ride, a few Face Times with friends and family, cooking, eating and watching TV, can’t be very interesting to read about.

Before Covid, we would go out at least once or twice a week to a pub or restaraunt, to the cinema or the theatre, to our writing and photography clubs, to meet friends and family for coffee or drinks. My daughter and granddaughter would pop round at least twice a week. We’d go shopping to buy clothes or things for the house. We’d take the train into Birmingham and mooch about.

At weekends we’d often travel to see friends or family (my parents and sister live in Harrogate), we’d sometimes travel further afield for sports events or just to visit places we haven’t been to before. We’d host family visits, Sunday lunches and parties. We’ve already cancelled a trip to Athens in March to see our granddaughter who is working there for a while, a trip to Marseille in May to watch the European Rugby Finals and discover the city, and a visit from our son who lives in Sweden. God knows when he’ll ever be able to visit us again. This summer we had tickets for the tennis and cricket in Edgbaston, music festivals in Mosely and Solihull. All cancelled.

We love our holidays. In January we went to Barbados, last year we went to the Outer Hebrides in April and drove to Sweden in June via The Netherlands, Germany and Denmark. The year before that we went to India. This year, we were planning a cycling holiday in September – no chance of that now. We’re still clinging to the hope that somehow we’ll make it to Barbados in September or October, and be able to stay there until the following spring.

This week it is our youngest granddaughters 2nd birthday – we won’t be going to her party. She’d not having one. We might drive over and wish her a happy birthday from the driveway when I deliver the cake.

So, if you’re reading this, some time in the future (I like to imagine my granddaughter reading this 20 years from now – by the way, I love you and miss you so much little one), we weren’t always like this. We had a life that was full of variety, and rich in adventures and new experiences. We have just adjusted to The New Way of Live. I don’t even feel particularly sad about it any more. It doesn’t strike me as strange any more, that the most exciting thing I did last week was carry a rug, two beach chairs and a bottle of wine down to our village green and drink it in the sunshine, watching others from a distance do the same.